Warning ladies…Stay away…
Not Emotionally Ready!
Warning signs that a guy is N.E.R.:
He tells you he doesn’t want a relationship.
He tells you he is not emotionally ready.
He gets close to you, then pulls away.
He stares at the waitress when you are on a “date”.
His eyes wander toward every female in a close proximity.
He talks about his mother and ex girlfriend at least once every time you see him.
He consistently asks about your friend while he is clearly showing interest in you.
He constantly talks about “his type”, when you are so obviously not it.
He makes plans with you, but they never seem to pan out.
…I can go on and on, but I think you get the point.
If you are wasting your time with a guy that has any of these qualities…STAY AWAY. You are just going to harm yourself.
Adverse side effects – Hanging around with a N.E.R. guy may lead to a false sense of lower self-esteem and self-worth. Risks are very high and may cause you to cry, eat excess sugar, or load up on carbs.
Warning – you will think it is your fault. IT IS NOT, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU, except for the fact that you are not acknowledging the fact that this guy is a N.E.R. and not worth your time.
Side-note – You cannot train, manipulate, or woo a N.E.R. guy no matter how hard you try. If a guy is Not Emotionally Ready, he is Not Emotionally Ready PERIOD.
Important – You may have a short lapse in judgment and believe he is emotional ready right before and during sexual encounters, but the truth will reveal itself again right after the deed is done. STAY AWAY:)
*The phrase N.E.R. was coined by Jessica D.
Co-Founder of DirtyandThirty.com. Human/Creator/Actor She loves finding her inner goddess, drinking wine, and you can usually find her on a spin bike or a yoga class 5 days a week. Besides co-founding DirtyandThirty.com, she's an actress and can whip up some fabulous classic cocktails. Although not a fabulous cook, you can find her at the farmers market every Monday and loves to frequent restaurants, bars, and local speakeasies. www.xoStefanie.com - Twitter: @StefSeifer - Instagram: @StefSeifer