Dating in the year 2012 is harder than ever! Between text, email, IM, Twitter, FB, direct messages and all the online dating websites, you would think it would be easier to communicate. But this is absolutely NOT true!
Instead men and women spend hours and hours agonizing over all these forms of communication. A text read the wrong way can ruin someone’s night. If you reach out to the person you are dating and they don’t get back to you right away, then you start plowing through exchanged emails trying to find some sort of subtext you missed and rethinking past smiley faces and their true meaning. Next thing you know, you are absorbed searching their Facebook wall for inappropriate posts.
Get a grip people!! Plain and simple, if someone is into you they make time!!!! If you want to see someone you FREAKING SEE THEM! So own up to it and stop making excuses for the people you like. And this goes both ways! People, if you aren’t into someone LET THEM KNOW! Don’t keep cancelling and rescheduling coffee dates saying you are too busy or something came up. Let’s face it, if the person you like doesn’t make you a priority, then perhaps THEY ARE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU! So stop wasting your precious time and go meet someone who is and most importantly people, PICK UP THE PHONE! If you like someone, call them – enough with texting all the time. Let’s all agree to make more of an effort and send clear signals.
“He’s just not that into you. So Move On” – Miranda
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Co-Founder of DirtyandThirty.com Stuart Brazell has talent, brains and beauty as distinctive as her name. She’s a fab, fierce, femme who always speaks her mind whether in person or online (just ask her husband). The social butterfly knows how to work a room and dress for every occasion. Equally comfortable on a red carpet or at a yoga retreat, she’s the sassy southern belle who friends call when in need of advice or just plain fun.