“Cause I can’t make you love me if you don’t
You can’t make your heart feel something it won’t
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I’ll feel the power
But you won’t, no you won’t
‘Cause I can’t make you love me, if you don’t
I’ll close my eyes, then I won’t see
The love you don’t feel when you’re holding me”
These Bonnie Raitt lyrics ARE words of wisdom ladies! You can not make him love you no matter what you do. I hear it all the time, day and night…..”I know he feels different! I can feel it. He said he doesn’t feel like I do, but I KNOW he does.”
Newsflash! He will still sleep with you or have you around just for pure egotist entertainment. Know it and understand it.
First of all, how terrible is it to even waste your energy on someone who says they aren’t in love with you!? You are not that pathetic or desperate. Save your energy for yourself. When a man in interested, he will come your way. He will make the move and hunt you down. Your job is to focus on you and not be too available. MAKE them work and let them know they have to woo you.
Sometimes when you disappear out of someones life, they realize they miss you AND this is a good thing. PLAY hard ball because your heart is not an easy game.
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Sarah Agajanian
Sarah Agajanian is an artist and writer of many forms in Los Angeles, CA. She spends her days working at Damone Roberts Salon Beverly Hill's as a top Eyebrow/Make-up specialist. Her nights are busy with performing her music as a singer/songwriter around town at places like: The Viper Room and House of Blues. When she is not out and about the city, she enjoys to write and paint.
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Thank you. The chorus of this song has been in my head for about a week. I’d much rather have someone truly love me than stick around for company, sex, etc. I’ll hold out for the 0NE who will always be there and puts my needs above their own.